How to Choose the Perfect Pose for Your Live Wedding Painting

Emily Casey
Aug 3
2 min read

Your wedding painting is more than art—it’s a reflection of one unforgettable moment in time. But with so many beautiful parts of your day, how do you choose the moment to capture? Whether you’re envisioning something romantic, joyful, or intimate, this guide will help you choose the pose that feels most like you.

Start with Your Wedding Vibe

Think about how you want your painting to feel. Is your day romantic and elegant? Cozy and sentimental? Lively and fun? The overall mood you’re going for can help narrow down the right pose. Each option below brings something different to the canvas.

Pose Options to Consider

The Dip Kiss

This is a favorite for a reason—it’s dramatic, timeless, and full of movement. It works well during your first dance or after your ceremony kiss. It’s perfect for couples who want a grand, romantic moment frozen in time.

Best for: Bold, romantic vibes

Bonus: Looks stunning on canvas with a sweeping dress or veil.

The First Kiss

Simple, sweet, and iconic. The first kiss pose captures the exact moment you seal the deal—pure emotion, joy, and connection. It’s great for couples who want the memory of that exact ceremony moment painted forever.

Best for: Sentimental, traditional vibes

Bonus: You can include guests’ reactions in the background if you want a storytelling element.

The First Dance

Elegant, emotional, and full of movement. Whether it’s a slow sway or a choreographed number, the first dance makes for a stunning centerpiece. It often shows off your venue and lighting too.

Best for: Joyful, expressive, or dramatic settings

Bonus: Perfect for showing connection and atmosphere.

A Posed Intimate Moment

This one’s all about closeness. Think forehead touches, quiet cuddles, or a shared laugh away from the crowd. These poses can be recreated briefly during the night or even privately posed after the ceremony.

Best for: Cozy, personal, emotional vibes

Bonus: Great choice if you want a private-feeling keepsake.

Ask Yourself What You Want to Remember

What moment do you want to relive when you look at your painting?

The rush of joy after “I do”?
The romance of your first dance?
The quiet, meaningful connection only you two felt?

Start with that feeling, then match it to the pose that reflects it best.

Talk With Your Painter

You don’t have to figure it all out alone. I help couples choose their pose based on what matters most to them—sometimes even after the wedding! Whether you already have a pose in mind or just know the vibe you want, I’ll help guide you to the perfect moment.